Readings By Kim
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Every now and then I come across some information that I find to be both enlightening and helpful. Some information I come by through reading and some is channeled. Maybe some of this information you could use too!
Quote about the process of Mourning a Loss
"The emotional pain caused by loss suffered does not move toward forgetfulness. It moves, rather, in the direction of enriched remembrance, the memory becomes an integral part of the mourner’s personality. The work of mourning has been completed when the person (or cherished thing or animal) no longer appears as an absence in a barren world but has come to reside securely in one’s heart. Each of us must grieve in his or her own manner and at his or her own pace. For many people, one year seems to bring completion. Others require much more or less time. Periodic waves of grief are often felt for the remainder of one’s life. The mourning process must be given the freedom to find its own depth and rhythm; it cannot be artificially accelerated. A loss, like a physical wound cannot be healed over night. There is no way to hurry the stages of tissue growth and there is no way to speed up the healing process of mourning. But, when mourning has been completed, the mourner comes to feel the inner presence of the loved one, no longer an idealized hero or maligned villain, but a presence with human dimensions. Lost irreversibly in objective time, the person is present in a new form within one’s mind and heart, tenderly present in inner time without the pain and bitterness of death. And once the loved one is accepted in this way he or she can never again be forcefully removed." -Death and Dying Textbbok
Some of my favorite quotes
Life is an occasion. Rise to it!
Never let go of hope. One day you will see that it all has finally come together. What you have always wished for has finally come to be. You will look back and laugh at what has passed and you will ask yourself... 'How did I get through all of that?”
Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”
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Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”
“Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change. Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them. Life feeds back truth to people in its own way and time.”
“You can't put a Band-Aid on every boo-boo you've made; some just need time to heal...”
“Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with those who are reckless with yours.”
“You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no result”
Whatever you are, be a good one.
